Want to know how struggle and pain helps transform YOU and helps YOU succeed when setting goals?
Believe it or not…
… struggle and pain can actually be the best thing for you when you’re trying to succeed in life.
And if you find yourself thinking of giving up on your goals, your New Year’s resolution or with whatever it is… then this blog post will help you out.
In this blog post I’m going to break down success and what it truly takes to be successful. Here’s the first rule of success and setting goals.
Experiencing Pain & Struggle is normal.
When you’re on your journey to success the reason why you feel struggle and pain is because the journey forces you to view yourself differently… it exposes characteristics about yourself that you may not like to hear or that you’re unaware of.
It can show weaknesses in your character, aspects of your personality that you may not like, it can show your unfocusness, it can even show you’re a bit of a pussy, etc.
Your journey to success basically forces you to analyze yourself differently and most people can’t handle that because it brings up a lot of bad emotions.
And for us as humans we hate experiencing bad emotions…
… it’s one of the reasons why people hide bad emotions by taking alcohol, eating excess amounts of food, taking drugs, pills, etc… instead of facing that bad emotion and using it as a tool.
That pain and struggle you’re experiencing is great because it’s feedback for what you need to work on in order to be successful.
The journey is letting you know what you’re weak at and what you need to approve on by giving you feed back. How do you expect to transform into the person you need be in order to get success when you don’t have feedback.
Just think about that…
Enjoy the journey, enjoy the struggle and the pain for the feedback it gives you. Just understand that the more pain and struggle you’re going through the more you’re going to transform into the person you need to be. A person of success.
Now Let’s dive in deeper….
If I were to tell you that failing is crucial for success would you believe me? Because I fail about 90% of the time with everything that I do and that I actually love when I fail.
Now this might make you think, “ how can someone be successful if they’re failing more then succeeding?”
Well here’s the deal…
There’s actually no such thing as failure… failure is just an illusion. Failure is just success that leads to greater success.
I’ve learned to approach failure with the attitude of an opportunity to learn… and through that I discovered how to succeed.
By attempting and failing, you will continually refine your thought and point yourself closer and closer to success. But that’s only if you don’t give up…
Through failure brings success that leads to greater success.
Just think of anything you’re good at or have been good at in the past. How did you get that good?
By failing over and over again until you finally succeeded. It’s one of the biggest life hacks to success is to not be afraid of failure but to be happy when you fail.
Just remember that failure provides the opportunity to direct your compass in the right direction… the direction to success.
A quick Recap on Setting Goals.
Pain and struggle is good for you because it forces yourself to view yourself differently.
The journey to success can expose characteristics of yourself that you may be weak in, etc.
Use this as an opportunity to analyze yourself and to start working on yourself. Allow the journey to transform you into the person you need to be in order to have success.
Failure is just an illusion. Failure is success that leads to greater success.
Without failure you cannot succeed. Be excited for when failure happens for the gifts it brings. Every time you fail, approach it with the attitude of an opportunity to learn.
If you have a friend that is setting goals, who made a New Year’s resolution or starting to hit a bit of a brick wall… then show them this blog post.
Help them and me out, 2 birds 1 stone. Also if you found these tips or this blog post useful…let me know.
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